So it takes a week for an Nt to know something is ”off”.
Its in the little things in daily life.
The social daily life.
Such as ”thank you” on a constant basis.
Or a ”good bless you” for every sneeze.
Nt like this.
When people acknowledge their feelings and confirm their state off emotions.
”Oh, Im so sorry that this happened to you, I know how you must feel….”
Instead off, ”what do you need right now? What can I for you?”
Its really hard to grasp (for a solution based mind).
That confirming what is felt is better than a solution for those bad feelings.
Its not that we don’t have empathy for others.
On the contrary, its precisely thats why a solution is the best answer.
And we are called ”cold”.
How funny is that.